I'm in a relationship with the people who surround me. These relationships take place in different contexts, eg. marriage, family, friends, associates, work, clubs, neighborhoods. If I take any kind of action toward a person I'm in a relationship with, that action comes back to me. How is that?
Let's see the following example:
Let's suppose I hurt somebody. Between this person and me there is a relationship that links us. one to another. So if I hurt that person, then I also hurt the relationship between us. But I am also part of this relationship, so therefore, I'm hurting myself as well.
Does this explain why you feel worse and worse when you hurt /argue with somebody - and why does it make you feel better and better, when you help somebody? ;)
Interaction
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